Make the first meeting public, clear, and entirely your choice.

Shared places can create a useful introduction. They do not replace normal dating precautions.

Safety guidance

  • Keep early conversations in the app

    Do not immediately move to another platform if something feels unusual or pressured.

  • Meet in a public place

    Choose a populated location that you know and can leave easily.

  • Tell someone your plans

    Share the person’s profile, the meeting location, and when you expect to return.

  • Control your transportation

    Avoid relying on the other person for transportation to or from a first meeting.

  • Protect personal information

    Do not share your home address, workplace details, financial information, passwords, or verification codes.

  • Trust your judgment

    End the conversation or leave the meeting if something feels wrong.

  • Report concerning behavior

    Reporting can protect both you and other members.